Hi! I'm Kyle (she/her).

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I'm a proudly Weird, witchy, Daydreaming, Pisces Goddess. I'm also the fiercely protective mother of three incredibly kind, smart, funny, good-looking humans. I love Brussels sprouts, travel, and laughter. I get off on hard work but I also love to playyy.

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My favorite person on the planet is my partner, husband, love, and best friend, Chris. We've been through some serious shit together in our very long romance (I was a teenager when we met), which has helped us build a relationship with dynamic texture.

 

For 20+ years, I built a great career in banking. Specifically, in the specialized areas of consumer protection, regulatory compliance, and enterprise risk management. It's a career I'm still really proud of, and I met some of my greatest friends and mentors along the way, so it's a part of my life that will always be sacred to me. I know, I know...it's banking so how sacred can it be? Ha! True. AND, well, I find that anything is sacred if you allow it to be.

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So the corporate job was just fine, but I was feeling the beginnings of burnout, ready for a change, and ready to step into work that was better than "fine". I wanted work that spoke to my authentic, soul-based purpose. 

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Enter Layla Martin and the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality (if you listen closely enough while I talk about my teacher, you can hear the delicate strands of a harp and a subtle, sexy "om...", as a shiver of delightful energy sparkles its way down your spine).

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I had been following Layla's work for several years, learning things about myself, my body, my potential for self-love, and my capacity for pleasure... 

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I was almost 40 years old and discovering things about my own body that I had never even known I didn't know...

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I felt like everyone needed to learn these things...

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I felt like maybe I could teach them (gasp)...

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​In December of 2019, I enrolled in Layla’s 650-hour VITA™ Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach Certification Program. It was life-changing. I mean it quite literally; my life has changed in myriad ways thanks to this work. I say those words “life changing” without feeling grandiose or cheesy, though I am actually, fully, quite cheesy. 

 

Through the same work I now offer to others, I dove into the depths of my soul, saw the ugliest, most fearful, shameful, hidden parts of myself and I learned that I could accept those pieces. In fact, I learned to love those parts of me. I met and held my beautiful, curious, and tender inner child and experienced over and over and over, the most profound, Earth-shattering love.

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So that's me, or at least a fraction of me. This work that I get to do now is the deepest honor that I could ever have imagined. Sprinkling self-love, orgasms, and pixie dust across the clients I get to serve, and what could be better than that?​