I offer men's sex coaching because I am highly passionate about the need for it. I am also aware of the lack of healthy resources available to men in the sexual development arena, and it is my honor to hold a loving and safe space for men who are interested in this work. In my experience, many women are undergoing a beautiful/deserved/overdue/necessary reconnection to their sacred sexuality and the divine feminine (and masculine). Complimenting this awakening, there are myriad opportunities for women to reclaim their sexuality, their primal nature, heal trauma, connect with other sex-positive and awakened women, etc. I do not see the same focus happening for our male-bodied counterparts. Don't get me wrong...I know spaces exist for men to explore these themes, and some of them are wonderful. However, the majority of what I see on offer for men is frankly problematic as fuck. The subtly violent, petulant themes such as alpha-maledom, hook-up culture, pickup artist...these are divisive, out of date, out of touch, and extremely unhealthy. And wholly unattractive to most women. As a mostly straight, cis woman, I come with a perspective that is different than my male clients' perspective, and this allows us to be in the space of "beginner's mind" with each other, engendering a beautiful and intimate exchange. My embodied experience of living in a woman's body gives me the perspective to speak to generalities about women's anatomies, sexual needs and wants in a way that a male-bodied coach cannot.

Oh my gosh...so many resasons!! Here's a small sampling of why men come to sex coaching: To develop or reconnect to a belief in his sexual abilities. To deepen his sense of confidence in his desirability. To learn how to please a partner. To uplevel their sexual encounters within a long-term relationship. To increase sexual mastery and "feel like a sex god". To take the next step in his personal development (And this is a really important point----we still live in a society where sex is taboo, and for many, it's the final frontier on the journey to self-actualization). To reclaim sexual confidence after a break-up or other challenging sexual encounter. To cultivate a sexual mindfulness practice. To learn how to access his inherent sexual energy. To learn communication tools around sex with their partner or partners. To explore non-ejaculatory orgasms, multiple orgasms, full-body orgasms, and more.

Nope, never. For one thing, all sessions are held virtually. But, more importantly, the nature of this work is such that the coach and client maintain a professional relationship and do not engage in any physical touch or sexuality with each other. Boundaries are established at the outset and reviewed as necessary to ensure we are both within our windows of tolerance and feeling safe.

The coach/trainer will never be nude on camera. Some of the training material will include images of sexual anatomy. Any nude images, anatomical drawings, descriptions of sexual acts and practices are meant to educate, and are not provided for the purpose of arousal. (Please keep in mind, however, that this is a sex-positive space, and arousal is healthy and celebrated!) Some of the self-practices you are assigned (for example, guided audio recordings) will invite you to explore your anatomy. You may wish to be nude for these practices, in the comfort and privacy of your own space.

Typically, no refunds will be given for purchases of The Magnetic Man. If you have extenuating circumstances, you may request an exception to this policy, but it is not guaranteed.

It's as easy as scheduling a free exploration meeting at https://calendly.com/kylemelody/30-minute-discovery-call, or shooting me an email at kylemelodycoaching@gmail.com if you have further questions!